Hey jb~
I used to go with a guy who, like Maggie's SO, had survived prostate cancer.

I always believe communication is a priority in a relationship, so we talked about what would and wouldn't work. We worked around what wouldn't work.

I hope I can speak freely on this delicate subject, and not offend anyone--you know me..... I'm just relaying what he said he was told. His surgeon told him that he would still be able to experience what is called a "dry orgasm", that he just wouldn't ejaculate.

I was quite surprised, but I'm a female, maybe males know these things.

Good luck!
Hugs,
Jan