Badway,

I understand your struggle. I was becoming a problem after a concussion in 1999. Eventually, my wife and I changed the dynamics of our marriage where I gave in to letting her take the lead during stressful events.

Working to change the stress level in your home should help. The boys can participate by lowering their energy levels when the circumstances suggest it.

Between visual and auditory stimulation and the busyness of a home with 4 young boys, you have a high risk for over-stimulation. Reducing this should be your priority.

The hormone analysis would also be very helpful. You likely are overly adrenaline prone. Finding the right endocrinologist will be a big help. You may be able to find a good one with this link, https://www.womensinternational.com/..._referral.html

What meds have the doctors tried ?