Just when you think your friend is going to be a friend.Yesterday I got a text from my old friend Saying that things are good and a lot going on.I asked her what?she said could not be any happier.Getting ready for some updates in her house.I said that's great.Really happy for you.Then she says ,going to have a painting party,can you come help.?I said NO.I can not do that.She goes oh that's right you had surgery and you are not working..I told her no not yet..I told you the other day.Then not another word..I know now that she only thinks of her-self for sure..I am so hurt by this..This means she never listened to anything I told her 4 days ago...I really do not understand people...I do not want her to feel sorry for me,but act like you care.I noticed no one listens to us about RSD only our mates..I sure am greatful for my HUSBAND..