Heather, yep, completely get you on this one friends who turn out not to be...it's so sad and hurtful. I bet we've all been there at times.

Moosey started a thread just called 'friends' that has a lot of discussion about this...have a look. I'm sorry I can't type more but I'm lying down today on account of the crapness of things, and typing is a mare

Take care, and remember that they are wrong - you're still worth someone's friendship, they're just not worth yours.

Bram