Oh Donna,
Is that your kiddo or dh?
I can sympathize with that feeling. All our vacations I walk on egg shells. If I forget and don't respond the way I am suppose to all he!! breaks loose.

He is just so argumentative. Last year just dd and I did Disney and it was great. I have not had work the last year like I use too. I ve needed to continually withdraw money from the settlement to pay bills and the taxes. I earned $3,300. He earned $11,000 over his Soc Sec and did not give me a dime. Calls it his vacation money yet he makes me pay for everything anyway.

Ugh, I hate to whine, but with the crappy weather I so look forward to the trip with dd. I have been working security for a few months now PT, standing on my feet for $9.00 an hour to take the trip....

The family just drained me with all they felt entitled to....
I need to have a break, my BFF is going on the cruise with us and I feel bad if she is exposed to the nasty treatment.
He does really nice things, it's just the flipping moods happen in a moment.

I had to shovel the cars out of 22" of snow Saturday while he slept in. My son that has the seizures tried to do what he could, but he got pasty looking and glassy eyes, I made him stop. The older son was hurting from working but used the tractor with the plow blade to try and push back snow so I could park the cars I had moved out.

I just leaned on the shovel heaving with my asthma and back hurting. Dummy me was in capris with no gloves, thought I was just moving cars until I saw ds. I got in the shower to warm up and cried, weeping from exhaustion and pain.

Dh ask me if I was okay, no I wasn't. Then wanted to know "why are you out there doing it, there are the boys to do it. If he didn't tell his nephew not to bother plowing us with the truck because we had the tractor I wouldn't have had to shovel at all!
Okay, guess it's the long winter......cabin fever, driving and working in sub freezing and this mess for peanuts making me sore.....sad, worn out.

Ugh, please Spring come soon!