Barb, ditto from me, you are the tops!! You always know just the right things to say, and you say it so very well....have you ever thought of writing a book or a self-help column? You're better than "Dear Abby" ever was...

You're like the cosmic cyber Mother we all wish we had - goodness knows my Mom, when she was alive, was never supportive or encouraging for me

Big cyber hugs from us all!