Dilmar you were not offputting. I agree there is so much combined knowledge to be found in this group! So I did not want to some off as an authority when I know so little. I do not have a support group anywhere near me so I just soak up all of your posts as well as marvel that they come from around the world! Just reading what you all are going through increases my understanding by leaps and bounds as well as making me feel less alone thus giving me great comfort!