oh boy I feel so bad for you..its terrible when family turns away more or less too.its really hard.You know the ones that are really close seams like they back away or get to get being unfriendly.Wonder if they care,but do not know how to express them selves.,or how to deal with us not being the same as we once were.wish you the best..Try having a heart to heart if possible...or let them go with you to the doctors,if they will not let them read about rsd..