Oh wow Allanira, you need a break! You said your in-laws are still with you. So are they not able to help more so that you can rest and let this flare pass? Bless your heart. I feel for your situation. Let the house go. Do the absolute minimum. As long as everyone is feed, pottied, and bathed on occasion, let the rest of it go. GREAT BIG HUGS for you!