Hi Jerie!
I have gone through this bladder and pelvic pain stuff recently. My PCP referred me to a wonderful Urogynocologist. I had burning when I pee (never an infection), urgency, frequency, burning pain in my bladder, etc...I hurt when I wipe too, but not sure if it is PFD, IC or RSD. He did all sorts of tests on me - urodynamics and cystoscopy in the office. Under anesthesia (out-patient) he did a cystoscopy with biopsies and hydrodistention. I was diagnosed with interstitial cystitis and pelvic floor dysfunction. I thought I also had vulvodynia, but he did tests and determined it is actually RSD in that area. Have you had any of these types of tests/procedures? A lot of your symptoms sound like IC and PFD. Go to
http://www.ic-network.com and click on the conditions tab, they have some great info.
Nanc