I'm sorry you're having such a tough time moosey. I too have trouble traveling and my family still does not seem to understand why. I've had rsd for over three years now and would rather stay home and walk outside when weather permits, then travel. Sitting in car for long periods of time and then trying to socialize while on all these pain med is exhausting. And with exhaustion and immobility comes more pain and flares from my RSD. Once I'm home I usually go to bed and stay there for a good two to three days until I get my RSD flares under control. I keep telling my brothers and mother that it's just too hard to travel anymore. I am so worn out from the pain and asked them to meet me half way. But they just can't seem to find the time. We live an hour and half away from each other, and it hurts that they won't make the effort. But I'm not going to cause myself more pain anymore for their sake. I hope that your family will eventually understand how hard it is for you to travel and maybe they will come to visit you for a change. So far, except for my son, my family won't make the effort. Hang in there Moosey and take care of you. You need to look out for yourself so you don't aggravate your rsd.
And as for morphine, I hate the stuff. It make me nuttier then I already am. Demoral helps more in hospitals, but they stopped using it. It figures. Oh well try to get some rest and I will pray that things get better for you soon. From your friend, Renee.