Good god sweetpea your are a mess. With all this going on you would be STRESSED out of your mind with worry no doubt amplifying your symptoms.

The only thing I can think of to re balance your body is a very long intensive fasting period ( 7-30days?) under the supervision of a naturopath. At least that way you can eliminate food additives and chemicals through pesticide and any reactions you may be having to salt , sugar , wheat and so on and by resting your body it will promote faster healing.

This is not the complete answer but it would be a tremendous start in the right direction