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Originally Posted by Brokenfriend
Your mother either loves you,or she doesn't. My sister,and I were talking about this the other day. My sister was filled with love for her two daughters when they were born.
My sister,and I didn't have this. We have talked about this subject,and we have tried to understand what was going on with our parents. We came to a conclusion that our mother didn't love us. Our dad didn't love us very much.
I wonder what it was like to be loved from birth by my mother. I hear that I was not fed my mothers milk. I drank cows milk. I have terrible allergies probably from that milking process when I was a baby.
My sister LOOOVVVEEESSS her daughters. BF  |
Steve,
Do not thing of breast feeding or not breast feeding was an indication of how much a woman loved her babies. Lots of doctors and hospitals were telling women that formula was superior to breast milk.
I do not know if my mother loved her babies.
I do know that she suffers from huge huge amounts of anxiety and that she probably had a hard time --- especially with my father out of town often due to military duties.
I am sorry that you are going through these feelings right now. It is good that you have your sister.
M