My mother never called me in the last 20 years of her life. She was distant to me.

My sister is/was having a hard time with our mothers lack of love. When my mother died,my sister said that she didn't feel anything. That's how distant our mother was.

It wasn't the formula feeding at all. It was the feeling of a lack of love. I didn't know it at the time. I know it now,but I forgive her. She was dealing with mental health issues also,but her generation didn't talk about it. BF