I also have a husband whose goal is to make me laugh every day. Having someone like him has really helped me keep my attitude in check. Doing things like pushing through for the eclipse or remembering to be thankful for someone who went the extra mile for me really helps me. It reminds me that there is more to life than CRPS and celiac, that I am more than some stupid disease. It seems that it's the worst days that I need those reminders the most. So I've started appreciating even the smallest things. Even when it means all I can appreciate is the fact that I managed to get out for 5 minutes to water my seeds in the beautiful spring sun.