yes and no. Some people actually like caring for their partner, they have a caretaker complex . It does make it more interesting then hard its about striking a balance. Dave and I for example I do the taxes the budget and the bills intellectual things he works and does the housework I can't. I met him after my rsd started so it can work out. They just have to be the right person.

Maybe a small side note, be super honest about what the pain does to you Dave and I had a few rough patches getting him to understand some things. Like the canceling plans last minute or leaving parties early but it sure helps he is a geek rather then a jock! So he always wants to kick back at home!