Hi Dano,
I think it's great that you're looking for a way to help your wife.
You 2 have had some rough times but try to just move forward from here.
Don't beat yourself up over it. I know my husband has been great
support for me in getting medical treatments, but I've learned that
emotionally he just has to "turn it off" sometimes. At 1st I was a little hurt
by that but now I've learned he has to find his own ways to cope.

I know what works for one person does not necessarilly help another
with this disease. But for me the nerve blocks are a lifesaver! I'm not
in remission but many symptoms you describe are relieved and the
pain is greatly reduced. It's a "lost" day to get them but they're now
lasting several weeks. I would make it a big priority to get her the
proceedure!