Such a difficult position for you to be in and I can only offer my heartfelt empathy on what must be an extremely frustrating and saddening scenario.
You come over as a strong person and a loving one,so please do not let your own life totally diminish under the weight of all this.
Use this place as a sanctuary,and vent all you like.We will all try to support you and of course your husband if he decides to visit here.
Have you tried eeking out the upbeat posts...ones that are not particularly too informative about the future...to show him
[I am not negating the serious posts...just that he may not feel ready to know the full facts of pd yet]
Keep posting Maureen.Wish there were an easier path for you.
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