These are my bigest concerns as well. What if after surgery I'll be in constant pain, and not be able to return to a normal life? On the other hand, I can't continue like this as well. I have a bad head ache once per month, however I can tell the pressure in my head is getting worst. Plus I have mood disorders. I used to be the nicest person, and now I'm just becoming a monster that everyone is afraid of. Plus I have a kid to take care of. I'll have the surgery soon. May God help us ALL!