I do wish he would agree to talk therapy but he fights against any treatment. He was seeing a therapist when we first started seeing each other however but slowly stopped and won't really give a reason other than 'Nothing helps'. I understand that frustration as I dealt with it for so many years seeking help for my own illness. However I don't understand just giving up all together when you must clearly be unhappy as are those around you.
He is not physically violent but is definately emotionally abusive and it does take a toll on everyone who knows him. Most can ignore phone calls or not visit until his 'fits' are over but I do take the brunt of it. I have many times considered leaving but my options are very limited at the moment. With no family or friends to help out and a small disability check I have the choice of a homeless shelter. Not the worst option I suppose but also not the best situation (in at night but out on the streets 6am-6pm) for a disabled epileptic. I am however saving a little at a time and keeping my eyes open for a pLace I might be able to afford.
I truly appreciate your answer. It was very helpful to me.