I'm the spouse of an alcoholic, going through terrible ups and downs based on that horrific cycle of sober/relapse/sober/relapse and constantly asking myself "Do I stay or do I go?"

I've been in Al-Anon for several years, but what I'd really like to find is a support group made up of spouses or partners of alcoholics (drinking or not).

I'm in my early 40s, living in NYC. Looking for people in similar situations to help support each other through the horrible reality of living with an addict.

Anyone?