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Originally Posted by Mari
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Thanks Mari. Yes, it just seems to be coming from every which way and it is getting to me.
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Family money stuff is huge because the battles are really about what happened in childhood or even generations ago.
(Patterns are passed down and play out over lifetimes I noticed.
For example, one group has felt ignored, mistreated, unappreciated --- this applies even if it is not true -- but people feel it as if it is true.)
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Yep, you're "right on the money"... ehm, so to speak.
Seriously, my aunt does seem to be hung up on something that happened when they were kids. I'm just sick of it and the legal stuff is messy. Hopefully we'll be out of it soon.
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I am sad that the "really nice" girl turned out not to be a possible friend.
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Yeah. Some other doubts about her upset me maybe more or in combination. Otherwise could maybe just set her straight no pun intended. But no, not going to go there.
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have the docs tried cortisone-type treatments? That worked for me once.
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Thank you, yes, I've actually used a steroid spray on and off for years. I have a thing that started about six months ago, in spite of it. The ENT's "explanation" was
chronic pharyngitis due to tonsillectomy. What? My tonsils have been absent for forty years, an my pharynx has been fine until a few months ago! The main problem I have is with an irritating secretion which preceded any obvious soreness. No explanation for that. I'm a bit better off with infection ruled out -- safe to try increasing the spray. He actually rx'd a double dose of a newer spray which I'll try. Never know.
Hugs to you as well.
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