I've been lurking...
I have been having a lot of difficulty dealing with the invasion of DGD, grand-dog, grand-cat along with retired DH and my own dog...I blew my top the other evening and said some very nasty things

I always let things build up inside and then blow up...which makes all of my issues invalid, since my emotional behavior then becomes the issue...
Anyway, I am trying to breathe, let go and not worry about the next two weeks which will see my oldest son's (3rd) wedding, with an invasion of DS 36 and DIL, DGS, and their dog. Then we will head up to the cabin after the wedding and be there for several days...a two bedroom cabin with a screened in porch and one window AC unit. Three dogs, a cat, two grand babies, and 7 adults...I am going to have my gas tank full and stay in the car with the AC on in the garage