Starz

I'm probably not the best one to give advice in this arena because my hubby passed away in 2001 (I was 41) and I have been single since (I'm only 53 now). Was also dx with MS several years after his passing. After reading your post I'm almost glad I don't have to deal with that part of this dilemma.

You (and your DH) sound like you've accepted the various unpleasant effects of having a chronic illness. I would probably be feeling the same as you are.....guilty for not being able to be 100% there and sad for viewing it as a unpleasant chore.

There are lots of married women here that I'm sure will respond to your post. The weekend is usually quieter and slower on the forums so don't get discouraged if there aren't many posts just yet. They'll be along shortly. I just wanted you to know that your post was fine.....nothing to be embarrassed about.

Sounds like you've got a wonderful hubby, too.