Have you ever had occular migraines before? From what you have described it sounds like it may have been that. I've had them before. They pretty wild. I don't get a headache with them, just a little soreness in the eyes. They last anywhere from 5 minutes to 30 minutes for me.

I would definitely call the hospital and put in a complaint about the ER doctor. There is no excuse for her comment (or verbal vomit as I like to call it). You may outlive her for all she knows. Sheesh!

I hope that you find an answer to what happened and the solution is an easy one.