The value of a recliner is quite simple. You can't roll over in a recliner. Once you find your comfortable position, you can sleep in that position for a long time. In the beginning, I had to use pillows around me to prop up my arms so they did not hang and get uncomfortable.

It will take some experimenting to find the sleep position that works. Recliners are common in thrift stores.

Don't delay with your SSDI application. You can always stop the application but getting started late is a costly mistake. I continued trying to work but my declining income cost me hundreds of dollars in monthly benefits.

There are body size sleep pillows available. Pregnant women use them for support. Maybe a body pillow will allow you to sleep in that spoon position, spooning the pillow.

Experiment with different neck/head positions. Hopefully, you will be able to find one that is good.

My best to you.