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Originally Posted by willgardner
Let's talk about the silver linings.
How did the injury changed your paradigm, your perspective, your values, your character?
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To frame this, I'll first quote my neurosurgeon, who on my follow up appointment after release from the hospital told me:
"I consider you my miracle patient. I didn't tell your family this the night of the accident, but I didn't think you were going to make it"
I have a much more profound appreciation for life, while at the same time no longer have a fear of death.
My relationship with my spouse and erstwhile caregiver has grown deeper. I have learned it's OK to depend on and accept loving care from her and others.
Friends who visited me during my hospital stay and after showed me how much people really care for others.
I appreciate the power of prayer. I believe that without the prayers, heartfelt concern, and kindness of friends and family my neurosurgeon's initial fears would have been the outcome. Instead I can more forward and enjoy life.
Prayers for peace to all of you.