[I am so sorry for all of the things that have happened. My first thought is to contact the biggest medical center near you and talk to a social worker in the hospital part and tell her your story. Also, contact the business office to see if there are any programs that will help you pay for a trip for evaluation. They will also know of resources that are available. You have a very complex case and you need to go to the place that sees the most. God Bless You.