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Originally Posted by ger715
Mark,
I assume you would not want your girlfriend to leave you; but give her a reason to stay. Taking all the drugs and Jack Daniels could not be much of an evening for her to want to be with you.
Believe me; I myself have had those thoughts; sometimes a bit scary; but each day I try to give my husband to smile about; maybe enjoy watching a movie on tv; just something for him to have a little enjoyment in his life.
Can't think only of myself. My life is not the only one that changed; No more vacations, nice diners out, so many things we enjoyed together; now lucky if I can get thru a fast dinner restaurant and get home soon; because along with the 24/7 PM pain (on Oxycontin, etc.) I have had rectal cancer almost two years ago (rectum removed; afraid to be too far from my own toilet).
Please; don't be a "jerk" with her. Help her to want to be with you.
Because I care,
Gerry
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i promisedto watch all the football games wth her today andasked y other to take her out for lunch. i didnt feel well enough to to. women have always given more in relationships. they are the stroger less selfish half. and she doesnt now about the jack daniels, which doesn't make it better maybe make it worse