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Originally Posted by Slg1
I am also feeling the pain of social isolation. In my spare time I was a martial arts instructor and attended my dojo 2-3 times a week. I went from being in the greatest shape of my life to becoming what feels like jello. My close friends disappeared, family didn't call and I got depressed. Then a funny thing happened, close friends that I hadn't talked to in years, acquaintances or my dojo mates contacted me. I felt like I didn't deserve anything good anymore so just said thanks for the concern and left it at that. It took a leap of faith (inspired by my psychologist) to actually reach out, take a chance and see if they wanted to have a short visit. Well, it worked and I now have some new (old?) friends in my life that get it. It was hard to pick up that phone or agree to a visit when asked; but I did it and am sure glad I did.
Musician's earplugs help me be out in loud/crowded/noisy areas and I use a cane to steady myself. I go with someone if the place is spacious as I get easily overwhelmed (vision and noise).
My appointments are also a social outing (sad to say) but insurance has been declining all of my treatment plans as of late. I am getting that sorted out.
I am actually scared to death of my son (12 yrs) going back to school. He has been a constant companion and in a few weeks I will be alone again.
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you are lucky with the friend thing..mine are gone for good. couldn't spare a half hour a week. oh well. I spend my days on the CNN chat boards lol and here and wait like a dog for my girlfriend to get home from work.
her love knows no bounds and I don't know if I could have done what she did. I always said women were more loyal an dependable. I also have my cat..9 yeas ago I thought I would take over the world...now I'm just glad for company...oh well...thank God I have my girlfriend