Some doctors get it. They treat their patients as they would like to be treated if the shoe is on the other foot.

Many do not.

Many factors may go into the reason they do not always meet our expectations.

My post in NO way is meant to bash doctors in any way, shape, or form. Just trying my best to understand them and get harmonious relationships with them for all patients.

I would really be up a creek without a paddle without them and have been VERY fortunate to have found some really terrific ones. I have also met some real jerks as angell encountered.

I just don't know how to get everything I want and need from them, even the great ones.

The bad ones, well, I leave them in a trail of dust whenever possible. Sometimes we do not have that option. They may be the only game in town so to speak.

I definitely think more patients should speak up when necessary if for no other reason but to inform the doctor just in case he is unaware of his demeanor. My optimistic side thinks maybe it will effect change in them. The pessimist in me thinks they like being the way they are and are not going to change.

I don't think there is a right or wrong response at times. We must do what is best for us.