Thaydrian, I'm sorry for your pain. Read the book of Job of course, who was in the same situation as you. My interpretation is also that your wife probably cares about you. Thank her for taking care of you and being concerned, even if you don't think she is. My wife asks maybe every few months. Remember this is difficult for a loved-one too.

Maybe if you could tell us a bit about yourself, we could help. Maybe you have on a different thread. What do doctors believe is the cause of your PN? What have you tried for relief (and don't say "everything"). What type of doctors have you seen? What do you eat? How much do you move around? Do you exercise?
Ron