Hi Penny Lane:

It's not very pleasant to wake up to a wet bed.

My neurogenic bladder causes the opposite problem - retention, so Baclofen helps with that problem.

And as Sally said, having your bowel let go in public isn't pleasant. I've had it happen several times - just when I thought it was safe to come out of the bathroom....

Quality of life issues usually have a solution. Your neuro should be able to help.