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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Way down yonder in the Land of Cotton
Posts: 231
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Way down yonder in the Land of Cotton
Posts: 231
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I am so, so sorry. ((((Hugs))))
Oh Sweetie....
I am at a loss for words. I wish that there was something that I could say or do that would change this whole situation for you. I can not even pretend to imagine what it is that you and your family are going through right now. I am sending up many prayers for you, your family, and your beautiful little girl.
I am so glad to hear that you all will not be alone during this time. It is heart breaking to hear that you have family that is unable to be supportive or to understand the choices that you have made. But, that is not for you to worry about. You are doing what you think is best for your child. That is all that any of us can do. It is not for anyone to judge you and the very hard choices that you are being forced to make now. It is so very easy for people to say "Well...I wouldn't handle (fill in the blank) that way. If it were up to Me, I would (fill in the blank)." It is one thing to say what you *think* you would do, and another when you are actually forced into such a situation and HAVE to make such choices. People can think all they want, but this is your little girl that you are trying to make the best decisions that you possibly can for. That is all that matters, and to Hell with anyone that tells you any different.
I understand all of the second guessing that you are doing right now, but please try not to beat yourself up about this. I agree with what Allen said, and know that if you had ANY indication that anything was wrong with your precious little baby, you would have done everything you could to try to get her help. Look at it this way too, at 4 months of age, she has had doctor appointments and check ups and what not. The doctors missed this too.
Just know that we are here for you. Please let us know how you are doing, and don't hesitate to come and Vent, or Scream, or Cry, or ***** you're head off at how unfair all of this is, or just ask for a shoulder or some  . You need to do what you need to do, to try to keep yourself as strong as possible through all of this....for both yourself, and your family. So, let us try to help you do in that, in any small way that we can. Ok?
Love you, Sweetie. My heart is breaking for you, and I am sending up so many prayers......I only wish that I could do more.
Jose
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"It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities." ~Albus Dumbledore
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