I will keep all 3 of you in my thoughts. Being a mom myself I know what it would do to me to lose a child. My heart breaks for you in having to go through this. You have done all you can and consulted with the best doctors and then made the hardest decision you'll ever make in your life.

I don't know if this is something you would want to do, but it helped someone I know when she lost her baby. Take all the pictures you can. If you have a digital camera, great, if not is there one you can borrow? You don't have to do anything with them now but maybe just have them and put together a scrapbook later on. Take a clipping of her hair and seal it in plastic wrap, and add anything else that is special to you. Her binky, an outfit, make prints of her hands and feet. Put this aside in a box or somewhere safe. You can use them to make a special little spot devoted to her on a shelf or something. Just an idea.

For now, for every minute, every second just be together and love each other.

For all of you, I wish you much strength in facing the days to come. I wish you peace of mind knowing you did everything in the world. I wish for sweet Josie a peaceful moving on wrapped in the love of her parents.