Dear Thaydrian,

I am sorry for you and can relate to how you feel.
I have only had my situation for a few months but am also worried about wearing out the patience and kindness of my husband and sister.

My sister suggested today that my husband is feeling lonely due to my changed health and that even just being with him while he does something is better than nothing. Maybe when your wife calls you you can agree that she asks you a different question like 'What have you done today' or even just "Is there anything we need from the store'?

Sorry if this sounds very basic, but I hope it helps.

Joanne