Thank you Brianna I love your posts how you always address everything mentioned very refreshing.
I am curious any idea how to tell if I have permanent nerve damage? That sounds scary and awful. My biggest fear is I will have this pain forever.

The tooth beside the rc often hurts it has two big fillings on the sides. I'm told it looks fine but could be a problem? I wouldn't want to have any work on it though, anyway to rule it out for sure? Food couldn't be getting stuck in it? As my problems seem to flare up if I eat things with little seeds. I am now scared to eat blueberries strawberries raspberries pears chewy chicken, lol, crazy.

I most likely grind my teeth, I consciously all day force myself to relax my jaw but I often clamp down on that wisdom tooth because it sticks out? Whatever the cause my jaw muscles are always tight I get regular massage/chiro doesn't help. I have been considering trying to find a tmj specialist, I have no idea how to find someone who is actually a specialist and not just self proclaimed. Though if I got rid of this other pain perhaps this would be a non issue. Any suggestions for finding a good dentist would be appreciated. We live in the middle of nowhere not many options around and driving hours to try different places isn't really an option I would drive hours for someone who is for sure good.
Anyway thanks again I think I will phone my dentist and ask to be sent to an oral surgeon.
Don't think I should take the endos advise and wait a month for the ligament to settle down? ( personally I hate waiting). This thing is like a constant itch I can't scratch. Doesn't hurt too much just it never lets up.