I get where you are coming from. I am there. Thank God for my Mother in law. (Love that Woman). She is a RN for 20 plus years. She has taken the time to do the research. This helps because she helps explain it to my husband and she has started going to my appointments with me. As far as the doctors taking there sweet time for doing this and doing that. I get that too. Workers comp took there time but also so did Anthem. Everything takes for ever in the medical world now. Why? I have a thought on that but will keep it to myself. Just know you are not alone.