he doesn't help you with your condition? what about when it acts up and you need him?
I can tell you some truly horrifying stories of what my girlfriend has had to do this past seven years. Let's just say it was much less than pleasant.
He should be helping you with this sickness. The "old us" is gone. It sucks but it is what it is. He needs to deal with it.
You deserve to be treated right. God all these illnesses suck. They don't need to be made worse by getting chastised for being sick.