Oh honey, I truly do feel your pain! The only thing I can't really relate to is the child with developmental delays, but everything else you write about sounds so familiar. I wish I could give you a hug and make it all better!

Please consider your diet & nutrition. I'm becoming more & more aware that "You are what you eat" is the absolute literal truth. Magnesium supplements make the difference, for me, between being a raving psycho one week a month or being *relatively* normal. Even such simple things as food coloring or added sugar can wreak havoc, if you're sensitive to them. I'm sure you've heard this all before, but it really is worth a try.

I hope you feel better and that your child does well!