hey h1n1, the balance between acceptance and rage is, I guess, different for each of us. You do however have to "maintain your cool" in certain situations. I rolled through a stop sign and was pulled over. The policeman started asking an interogative line of questioning.Where you going? Where you coming from? What is your purpose for being out in public today? I was so angry that I was shaking and would not speak immediately. This made the officer all the more anxious. I rallied my composure and more or less told him I was "making a drag" as was common in the small town culture that was my heritage. This could have gone south in a hurry as I was running scenarios in my head that involved shouting "Gestapo" and charging with a walker out in front of me. So watch the rage, driving or talking to the police. It doesm't take a lot to get on the six o;clock news these days. Good Luck, Ken in Texas