To private message... click on the person's name in a post, and a menu will open. Choose "send private message" .
Or look the person up in member's list and open the tabs to the farthest right...and it will bring up the PM box too.
There is no right clicking needed.
You can also do "send message" from User CP in the upper left of each page. But then you need to accurately type in the person's name in the address box. The first two suggestions skip that part.
New members cannot PM for a short period, but all others if they have enabled the function in their UserCP can PM.
I see that both of you have enabled this function so it should work for you.
When you receive a PM you will see it right when you log in....the notifications area will show a number.
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