OK, guys, take it to the W/C forum or take it private.

i'm not trying to be rude here.

tam, i think it is wonderful that you are feeling well enough to actively participate on neurotalk again. you have been sorely missed! and your legal expertise in this area is amazingly helpful to so many here, what a godsend. you are very generous to share it.

i just have a thing about "bleeding between boards"... a personal gripe, if you will.

dawn, you know i love you to pieces and would do anything for you. but this type of exchange is best done either privately or on the legal forum, in my opinion. so you need to ask these questions directly of your own attorney - look to tam as a friend, and as back-up, yes...just not on here, OK? if you don't feel prepared for the court dates, then maybe get a continuance of some sort.

enough said. this is just my feeling on it, guys.

thanks for listening.

alison