Hello Horseymom,
Welcome to the NeuroTalk Support Groups.
Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue Forum
Headaches Forum
Includes migraine.
You can just click on those links and that will take you to each forum.
There are other forums that might have helpful information regarding your conditions. e.g. Chronic Pain Forum. You can check out the whole list of forums on the main index page below.
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/index.php
All the best to you in finding a good Neurologist in your area.
take care