Dear Pam,
I have noticed that place matters. We have too bathrooms now and I like one better than the other. It is easier to wash my hair and keep everything else dry. Getting in and getting out is a chore. And I have sympathy for you with extra challenges.

Dear Bobby,
Giving myself a spong kind of thing works sometimes. It depends on my issue. It certainly avoids the stimulation. But on the other hand it can feel like work and too much concentration invovled.

Dear Shiney Sue,
I kept thinking about your hose suggestion. Thanks.
It would solve some of my problem!
Maybe I can pretend that the shower is a hose and jump in, get wet, let the water run, and get out. I don't have to soap and clean. The water will do some of the job and it is better than no cleaning at all.
This kind of thinking in working. I showered two nights in a row--- extremely unusual for me.

M.