I didn't mean for my post to be sad, but informative regarding work. Sure, it sucked getting diagnosed at 37, but I was at least diagnosed very quickly in respect to others here. Yes, Effexor is an antidepressant. If he should need an antidepressant I'd start with celexia. Generic is cheap and there are few side effects. I don't take any antidepressants now. (Check out www.crazymeds.us). If Steven is having trouble swallowing he might try turning his head to either side and then try swallowing.

I lost my right eyesight due to a massive infection. I had another infection along with a bout of Shingles that affected my left hand (neuropathy). Yup, you guessed it - I'm left-handed. Fortunately I worked retail on the corporate side so I basically sat on my butt in front of a computer. I ran into trouble when I had to travel for business. Nothing in particular, just the hassle of it all.

I've no advice for the issue regarding his grip and work. Have you registered with MDA (mdausa.org)? They publish a magazine called Quest. Besides informative articles, there are ads for all kinds items to help around the house. I do suggest plastic tumblers at home for drinking, but keep the red wine away from the white carpet. I have managed to keep my sense of humor throughout the years. I recall in recovery from my thymectomy that I asked for a beer after being told I had to pee before being released to floor care or risk being catheterized (I didn't get either). For a good laugh, remind me to tell you the story about my best friend and I taking out my IV.

Steven will improve with good care. Sounds like you are a part of that. Just be sure to take care of yourself too.
Jim