Starznight, all of that is normal, but you do need to continue to acknowledge your emotions and feelings. Big hugs out to all of you and your family. Ohm how did the drunk driver do? It usually seems to be that they are unscratched an everyone else is hurt real bad or even worse such as in your situation. It makes a person want o shake that drunk driver so bad it makes them pass out. They have dramaticaly changed an entire families life and they don't have any scratches and some times no regrets.