Judy

I don't have a solution but just wanted you to know I care and will keep you in my prayers.

Seems like the aides would have seen this problem before and have some suggestions. Maybe they aren't allowed to suggest or endorse things because of liability.

I certainly hope the Urologist can do something to help. Do you have anyone to accompany you to your appointment? Sometimes it helps to let someone else hear what the doctor has to say. If you're like me you can think of several questions to ask.....but after I've left his office!