when you do that, do they make you give up your ability to choose what you want? There was a news story here in town recently that a woman went to the hospital for a respiratory infection of some sort, and while she was there, the doctors just up and decided that she wasn't able to make decisions on her own. She disagreed with that, and they forced her to stay in a care facility. She ended up going to court to make them let her go, so she could go back home. (she won, but she still has to have visits from some department of aging) I don't want to end up with a problem like that.