Hello remotetime,
welcome to the NeuroTalk Support Groups.
I'll post a couple of forums to start with...
Peripheral Neuropathy Forum
Arthritis Forum
There's also a forum search feature here and you can just type in a keyword and find other posts on the topic. [You need to have a word longer than 4 letters I think, so instead of typing CMT for example, it's best to search Charcot.]
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/search.php
I'm very sorry you're in so much pain and I hope you get some help and direction soon.